It has been said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Millions do this every day, even occasionally yours truly. Does this make us all insane? Not necessarily, unaware, scared, and tolerant of a lot of pain, but not insane. Why then the endless charade? Answer; the fear of and resistance to change. Change happens only WHEN YOU ARE FINALLY READY FOR IT. So the question to ask each day is, “Is today the day I will choose to think, act and BE someone different than I was yesterday?” At the end of each day you will know the answer.

Making the choice for a change in your life gets a lot easier when you realize that you will survive and possibly even THRIVE upon the change.  As I state in my new book, “I AM: The Power of Discovering Who You Really Are”, you cannot fool the universe. If you aren’t willing to change because of a fear that you will not be able to survive or make it through the change, you are demonstrating how limited you believe that you are. You are leaving the universe NO CHOICE but YOUR CHOICE. It must give you ONLY the experience of being limited, ONLY the experience of anxiety and fear, ONLY the experience of lack to match exactly with your belief.

For real change you must demonstrate a belief in a more unlimited and powerful self first, before the universe can grant you the experience of it. Have the hard conversation with your significant other, talk to your boss about a raise or promotion, finally be honest with yourself, get on a diet and exercise program, write your book, ask for help, send your resume out, pick up the phone and call your prospective client and then do all these things again and again and again until the conditions start to change in FAVOR of your truest desires.

There is no magic to creation. YOU and your powerful, demonstrated and continued belief is all the magic that is ever necessary. Your experience of life will change when you finally change. The world is truly and forever your oyster.

Howard Falco, is the author of the newly released book titled “I AM: The Power of Discovering Who You Really Are (Tarcher/Penguin). He is a spiritual teacher and speaker on the creative power of the mind. His work and schedule can be found at www.HowardFalco.com